Why do have to think and churn your mind whether you have taken a correct decision or you just ruined your life?
Your parents, your friends, your colleagues, even your acquaintances are always there to give you multiple opinions.
You know what she doesn’t look that pretty after all.
You know what he is fat.
How do you even fall in love with this person?
Omg! You are elder than him.
What are you doing with you life?
Long distance relationships never last.
Do you really think he is the one?
Don’t you think you are moving too fast ? Are some of the shitty questions you will come across once the world gets to know that you love someone.
I mean why is it so difficult for the world to digest that you can fall in love irrespective of cast color creed age and gender.
We, the millennials, prefer giving more value to our feelings than any of these materialistic differences.
We do fall out of love, we break up, we take breaks but don’t question our intentions just because we are bold enough to take our own decisions.
you know what?
We don’t give a flying fuck about what you think, why you think, how you feel or about any of your opinions.
Stop giving threats, saying SOCIETY KYA KAHEGI!
Who is this society? We are the society! If we are not there , you won’t have a society to swear on.
Can’t you see if we are in love , we cherish those moments rather than sitting and contemplating about the million odds that can come into this picture.
we do exist!
We who believe in “love” can fight the difficulties!
We just don’t get into a relationship , bond for one night stands!
I accept that one night stands, flings, hook ups are a real thing in our generation and somewhere down the line we think love is losing its charm because of these importers.
But there are millions of us who think of marriage as our ultimate destination.
Yes we know it’s not a cake’s walk!
And please don’t force us to get married or have someone in our lives saying that OMG you are 30,
you don’t have a partner in your life. It’s very difficult to survive without a support after an age.
Honestly we don’t want that advice. We even enjoy our singlehood. If we find someone or feel ready, we will take the step.
PLEASE STOP TELLING US WHAT TO DO, HOW TO LIVE OUR OWN LIVES!
May be we will consider what you say, may be we won’t!
Because it’s our life and we can take our decisions. Only give your advice when asked for.
We can hang out with our friends (even if they are of other gender), party late night without drugs, smoke, and drinks, have serious discussions, plan our future and achieve what we want.
We have accepted it all.
The ups and downs, the twists and turns.
And we are not complaining of what we are or what we have got!
We have embraced the small corner in this gigantic world.
So just a small request!
Stop staring at us if you see us somewhere chilling, talking, fighting, crying, laughing, jumping, hugging or kissing.
We are in a free country and we have the right to feel and express!
Lots of love,
//Come on let it go
Just let it be.
Why don’t you be you
And I’ll be me!
And I’ll be me!\\